Monday, April 09, 2012

Talk About It

When attending conferences and seminars as the owner of DivorceCommunications.com I frequently hear feedback from professionals who work with divorced individuals. One of the most common concerns expressed is they have referred their client to a therapist, however the client won’t go. The reason is the oft-heard defense; “there is nothing wrong with me”.

I couldn’t agree more, there isn’t anything “wrong” with the person who comes to counseling. On the contrary, there is something very “right” with this person: this person is recognizing that sometimes talking about life’s challenges can offer insight, offer alternative solutions, and help ease transitions. As a therapist, I am prone to encouraging individuals to talk about challenges they are facing. Divorce and parenting post-separation certainly qualify as major challenges and life transitions.

There is an increasing percent of the population that seem more willing to engage in “coaching” or brief counseling. Many of these individuals are opting for online formats. There are numerous studies regarding the efficacy and ethical issues surrounding online therapy. Most of the literature indicates online therapy is beneficial when delivered by a qualified, licensed professional who has the necessary safeguards in place.

Unfortunately, like most things in this world, there are those who see the opportunity to make a quick buck in this line of work. These con artists will portray themselves as “professionals” when in fact they are not. This will result in more harm to a person who is already struggling with issues and most likely turn him off to seeking help in the future.

One of the tasks we have is to educate the general population about what credentials to look for when seeking help of any kind. In addition, we need to provide the forum for people to be able to easily and affordably access help when needed. Divorce Communications is committed to helping parents and children who have been affected by divorce. We offer real help, not gimmicky packaging to market the site. It is our belief that allowing individuals the opportunity to talk with a licensed professional will help ease the transition. Being able to talk to a professional about parenting issues will help reinforce appropriate boundaries and offer guidance through this tough time.

I have received numerous emails and calls asking if Divorce Communications has a counseling component. As a licensed professional I have been contemplating the pros and cons of offering this service online. I am wondering what others think of online counseling for parents who have separated and/or divorced? Would you refer your client to a comprehensive service by licensed professionals in an online format? Please go to our blog, dcomm-divorceitsjustthebeginning.blogspot.com and tell us what you think. We would love to hear from you.

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